
It's one of those moments when a voice just pops up out of the crowd and grabs your ear... it feels like the heavens whispering to you.
I'm sitting in a San Francisco coffee shop and out of the blather of the crowd I hear a woman say, "OK, so my romance with entrepreneurship is over..." and truthfully I didn't hear anything outside of that.
But of course it got my wheels spinning...
[And in this case, the wheels are literally spinning as I peer out of of the Lower Pacific Heights coffee shop window...there's a guy with a top of some sort spinning it continuously on a string...! Is this guy a mainstay in this 'hood? I've only been here a few times before...! Anyway, I digress...]
Entrepreneurship IS like a romance of sorts for some...they dabble, they go on some dates, maybe they fool around a little bit...but soon, like most dating adventures, the relationship is over...
Truthfully for me however, it's been more like a deeply significant relationship, the most significant type of business relationship I could ever really have.
For some, it IS just a romance...or at least the dream of it is romantic. A vision of prince charming coming to steal you away and make everything better.
But for all of us that are in the daily dance of entrepreneurship, it's an utterly deep, complicated, satisfying and at times tortuous relationship on par with the longest and most deeply forming personal relationships of our lives.
I'm not saying that it has to be this way for everyone...some come in and some get out...BUT, if you have a vision of entrepreneurship being a fantasy romance, then clearly you are living in a farce.
It may help to re-skew your viewpoint and start to look at entrepreneurship and really your business and professional life as a deeply significant relationship that will stretch, bend and form you in a deeply significant way.